Online dating: 9 tips on how to find love without becoming a victim of scammers

Friendship, strong relationship, or casual flirting? One of the advantages of searching for love on the Internet is that users, first of all, get to know people whom they might never meet in ordinary life, that is, outside of their own environment. In addition, single people can adapt communication to their daily life, regardless of time or distance. However, virtual partner search also carries the risk of fraud, which can be avoided by following the following 9 tips.

1. Online Privacy

First of all, you should not disclose too much personal data on your profile, as any unscrupulous user can use this information against you. Knowing your name, profession and place of residence, you can be easily identified, so when registering, use a pseudonym and a strong password. Also, don't try to find love with provocative photos that will only attract frivolous men. The best way to grab attention is with an original or funny profile. If you use social media, be sure to restrict access to your personal information and photos.

2. Study your profile carefully

If a person you like in one single photo looks like a model, and refuses to send you more, this is a good reason to question the honesty of your interlocutor. One of the quickest and easiest ways to quickly spot an imposter is to use Google Images for a comparative search. If a person adopts the image of others, chances are good that he is lying about other things as well. Also, if you only get standard responses, you may also be dealing with a fake profile.

3. Pay attention to the details

If you communicate with a scammer, most likely, he is trying to deceive not only you. To check this, pay attention to the details. For example, during a conversation, he may declare that he grew up in a small village, and then talk about his youth in a big city. The more such inconsistencies you notice, the more likely your new acquaintance is lying.


4. Don't talk too much about yourself

You have been exchanging messages for a long time, you even developed sympathy and a certain level of trust. But even now, it's best to refrain from revealing too many details about yourself. Do not give your full name, phone number, address, and do not tell me how much you earn or what property you own. Remember that talking about money is taboo!

5. Pay attention to communication

If a new acquaintance wants to know everything about you, then it may seem that he is very interested in you. While this is flattering, be on your guard. Perhaps a person with the worst intentions is trying to find out intimate details from you or make you feel like you are alike. Even more suspicion should be aroused by the fact that the virtual interlocutor tells little about himself. Therefore, when asking questions, pay attention to whether the answers are the same and whether they are not standard phrases.

6. Do not open sent files

If you want to exchange email addresses to make it easier to write to each other, you should not forget about all the precautions. Remember, you don't know a virtual friend, so create a new email and don't open the files you send (even if it should be a photograph of a potential lover), or at least check the attachment with the latest antivirus software. Also, do not follow the links in the email as this could be a phishing attempt.


7. Virtual date

Before making an appointment in person, make a video call to a new acquaintance. This way, you don't just check if this person actually exists or if you are dealing with a fake profile. You can also make sure that sympathy really exists and it is mutual, which cannot be done when exchanging only written messages. If a new acquaintance turns out to be, this is a reason to doubt his honesty.

8. Be careful on the first date

So, it's time to meet in real life. However, for the first date, it is best to choose a public place. For such purposes, cafes and restaurants are ideal, and the absolute exception is your home or the home of a virtual friend. Just in case, let your friends or relatives know when and where you are meeting, leave your contact details. Also, for the time being, it is better to refrain from traveling in his personal car and offers to walk in deserted places.


9. Delete all contacts

If you have doubts about the identity and honesty of another person, or you have doubts about the reality of his existence, end the communication and delete all contacts. You can also report a possible fake profile to the dating site administrator to verify its authenticity.